Kuyenda ndichimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri zomwe munthu angakhale moyo. Ndipo ndikuti mukadziwa malo atsopano simumangolumikizana ndi geography, komanso ndi anthu, chikhalidwe, chilankhulo komanso mbiriyakale.
Mukamayenda mumakhala ndi mwayi wopeza anzanu atsopano, kupanga zokumana nazo zatsopano ndikumvetsetsa zina, chifukwa chake kuyenda kumakupangitsani kukhala osangalala.
Popeza kuchoka kwanu ndikwabwino kwa inu, takonza zifukwa zofunika kwambiri zochitira izi. Tiyeni tiyambe zabwino 10 zotsimikizika zaulendo.
1. Kulitsani luso lanu lolankhulana ndi anthu komanso kulankhulana bwino
Kukhala pamalo achilendo komanso osadziwika, kutali ndi kwawo, ndi njira imodzi yabwino yopyola zotchingira komanso zotchingira zomwe zimakulepheretsani kulumikizana ndi ena.
Paulendo mudzakakamizidwa kuti muyambe kukambirana ndi anthu osawadziwa, chifukwa chake kaya mukufuna kapena ayi, mudzamaliza kukonza luso lanu.
Kuthana ndi zopinga zolumikizirana izi kungapangitse mlendo kukhala bwenzi labwino, zomwe zimachitika pafupipafupi pamaulendo azachuma kapena zosangalatsa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kuyenda kuli kolemera.
2. Mumapeza mtendere wamumtima
Ntchito, ndandanda wa tsiku lotsatira, maudindo, ngongole, zonse zimawonjezera kuti mukhale ndi nkhawa komanso kupsinjika chaka chonse.
Mukamapita kukasangalalako mumachoka pazowona zomwe zimawoneka kuti zikukusowetsani kulikonse, koma osati mukamayenda ndipo ndicho chimodzi mwa zolinga zochoka kutali ndi kwawo: kupeza mtendere wamumtima.
3. Mumalumikizana ndi malingaliro anu opanga komanso oyamba
Wophunzira zaumulungu waku America, a William Shedd, nthawi ina adati:
"Sitima yomwe idayimitsidwa padoko ndiyotetezeka, koma sicholinga chomwe idapangidwira." Zachidziwikire, sizikanakhala zolondola kwambiri.
Mukamayenda mumayanjananso ndi malingaliro anu opanga, opanga nzeru komanso azamalonda. Mumachoka kumalo anu abwino ndipo izi zimamveka. Mumapezanso zolengedwa zotayika munthawi zonse komanso pachidziwitso cha moyo watsiku ndi tsiku.
4. Mumakulitsa malingaliro anu
Kudziwa madera ena, chikhalidwe, zachuma komanso malo, kukulitsani ndikukhazikitsa malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu.
Mukamayenda, wofufuza yemwe amakhala mwa inu amadzuka ndi kufunsa, amalimbikitsidwa ndi zomwe amawona, kumva komanso kudziwa, kutengera kapena kutaya. Izi ndi zomwe kusinthana kwachikhalidwe kuli, kudziwa mavuto ndi kupambana kwa ena. Zonsezi zimafutukula mawonekedwe anu.
5. Sinthani kulolerana kwanu pakakhala kusatsimikizika
Kuyenda kumachotsa zomwe mumakhala nazo m'malo anu abwino, momwe mumakhalira osakhazikika pomwe china chake sichikupita.
Mukamayenda mumakhala olekerera chifukwa mulibe ulamuliro pazinthu, zomwe zimakukakamizani kuti muphunzire kukhala nawo ndikuwapambana.
Nthawi zonse padzakhala kuchedwa kochepera ndege, kusintha hotelo, tsamba lomwe simukadatha kuyendera, zokumana nazo zosapambana zomwe zimakupangitsani kulekerera kusatsimikiza.
Mukakhala paulendo mumaphunziranso kuti ngati zinthu sizikuyenda monga momwe mudakonzera, padakali mpata wosangalala.
6. Limbikitsani kudzidalira kwanu
Kuyenda ulendo kumakhala kovuta nthawi zonse, ngakhale kwa iwo omwe amayenda pafupipafupi. Kutalika kwambiri pakati pa komwe mukupita ndi kwanu, kukonzekera kwamaganizidwe ndi chidaliro chomwe muyenera kukhala nacho, ndikokulirapo.
Zokhudzana ndi anthu ena, kulumikizana mchilankhulo china komanso kuzolowera miyambo ina ndizovuta zochepa koma zofunika zomwe mumachita ndikuzigonjetsa.
Kupeza zofunikira zothana ndi mavutowa ndikomwe kumakulitsa kudzidalira kwanu komanso kumalimbitsa chidaliro chanu.
7. Mumapeza maphunziro amoyo weniweni
Kudziwa zikhalidwe zina, mafuko, moyo ndi malo, zimakupangitsani kukhala ndi chidziwitso chamtengo wapatali chomwe palibe amene angakulandireni. Muphunzira moyo weniweni.
Ngakhale zonse zitha kulembedwa m'mabuku kapena pa intaneti, palibe njira yabwinoko yodziwira zambiri kuposa kungodzipangira zomwe mwakumana nazo. Imeneyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yophunzirira za mbiri, madera komanso chikhalidwe cha dziko kapena dera.
8. Pangani zikumbukiro kuti mukhale ndi moyo wonse
Kuyenda, makamaka ndi abale kapena abwenzi, sikuti kumangolimbitsa mgwirizano, kumapangitsanso zokumbukira zamtengo wapatali kwanthawi yonse.
Nthano, zochitika, malo, zilankhulo, zokumana nazo, mwachidule, zokumbukira, ndizomwe mudzagawana nawo podyera pabanja komanso maphwando. Zikhala zomwe zimakongoletsa chimbale chanu chazithunzi komanso makoma anyumba yanu.
9. Zimakusangalatsani
Oyendayenda amakusangalatsani. Zosavuta monga choncho. Malo atsopano adzasokoneza machitidwe anu omwe adzakulepheretseni. Mudzavina, ngati mukufuna kutero, mudzaseka ndi kusangalala ndi lingaliro lina. Mudzazindikira kuti zonse m'moyo sizili ntchito.
10. Mumaphunzira kudzidziwa nokha
Kuyenda ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yodziwira inu. Inde, chifukwa zomwe mukudziwa za inu nokha ndi za munthu yemwe ali mdera lanu tsiku lililonse, osati amene sali kunja kwanu.
Zomwe mungachite zingakudabwitseni, mutha kupeza zokhumba ndi zolinga zatsopano zomwe simukuganiza kuti ndizotheka musanapite.
Mwachidule, kuyenda kumakulitsa dziko lathu lapansi, osati lapadziko lapansi lokha, komanso zamaganizidwe, mwina zofunika kwambiri.
Ulendo ndizopindulitsa komanso zimathandizira kwambiri pamzimu wathu. Anthu onse ayenera kukumana kamodzi kamodzi ndipo ndi izi tikadakhala tikumanga dziko labwino.
Gawani nkhaniyi pamawebusayiti kuti anzanu ndi otsatira anu adziwe maubwino 10 oyenda.
